The sex toy to try if you want to use it during intercourse

The MiMi vibe is great for anyone who can't orgasm from intercourse alone (ahem, most of us). Oh and BTW: It.Will. Deliver. It has five vibration and pulsation patterns to choose from and works great with others: 'This vibrator is a perfect accompaniment to partner sex - carried in your palm, it fits easily in between your two bodies,' Carol Queen says.

Our editor's experience the key to be a 'woman forever'

It's hard to know how flexible/tight your PC muscle is. I care about my pelvic fitness but it's rarely talked about in public. Kyo, a professional exercise instructor, told me that the shape of woman's hip is deeply related to the strength of PC muscle. The three balls of Ami vary in shape and weight. The first one seemed big to me, so I tried the second one at the beginning. I tried my best to hold the ball while pulling the string.
I think now I understand more how to use PC muscle through a series of this exercise. For my intimate life and also for the prevention of incontinence in the future, I promised myself I would carry on this exercise regularly.

Get Sexy with this

Attention all your girls who want to introduce something new to your solo sex sessions. The bendy and bonkingly brilliant G-Ki vibrator is adjustable - it can contort almost 360 degrees! Shape it to suit you and most importantly reach your g-spot and put an end to the speculation that this pleasure point doesn't exist. It's waterproof, can be used with your man and comes in black, purple, rose and pink.

External Helpers

If you favour external massages try the Je Joue Mimi. Egg shaped ones are the easiest kind to hold on to, and they tend to have more surface area. Just lie it on top of your hooha, and let it work its magic.

Best for G-spot stimulation

Sexy and flexi - this waterproof ding-dong is adjustable so you can shape the head to target your g-spot or bend it to use as a simultaneous g-spot and clitoral stimulator. Tester says: I have three vibrators and prefer the G-Ki over all of them. It stimulated incredible orgasms. It was so easy to use, unlike some vibrators that require two hands. This'll take pride of place in my top drawer.

Sex Shrink

Perhaps bring out the MiMi, a smooth pebble vibe which gives cunnilingus a delicious twist: as you at last move your tongue on to her nub itself, alternating flicking it and pressing against it, hold the MiMi firmly against the flat of her mons, so the vibrations give a delicious counterpoint to your mouth work.

Sisters are doing it for themselves

Then there is something called the G-Ki, another good one, she explains quite loudly, for locating one's G-spot, which you can adjust to suit your anatomy, although only when switched on, else it will break (so beware, because if there is one used gadget you can't flog on eBay, it is this). Me, I'm slightly more interested in a shiny cut-out corset belt near the front of the shop - it would go with so many things. Do I end up make a good transaction? Yes, I can't leave with nothing. You really want to know? OK, I bought a G-Ki - but isn't that sort of private?

The smart grown-up sex special

The Je Joue, G-Ki vibrator: An intriguing new silicone vibrator which can adjust to your body shape so that it hits both the G-spot and clitoris.

Je Joue (French for 'I play') definitely looks more appealing than some of the visually alarming, vibrating, rotating, giant penis alternatives: from the get-go you'll feel at ease with it, whether you are au fait with vibrators or not. Like a bra or pair of shoes, there is no one size or shape that fits all when it comes to vibrators. Unlike other fixed position vibrators (like The Rabbit) which can hit one spot and miss another, this has two buttons set within the body of the toy (like the silicone- covered buttons on an electric toothbrush) for you to push in and adjust the neck and head positions.

Mio Cock Ring

The Mio Cock Ring by Je Joue is kind of the Cadillac of cock rings. It's made of super-soft and stretchy-yet strong-silicone. It has a magnetic inductive charger, like the MagSafe on a MacBook. That makes it virtually seamless and totally waterproof. It has a very strong motor and a ton of vibrational patterns and intensity levels (which can be adjusted independently), which gives you a lot of variety. Works great for clitoral stimulation during man/woman sex, if that's what you're into.

FiFi Waterproof Rechargeable Vibrator

This one doesn't mess around (and no, it's not the same thing as a prison "fifi"). It's a rabbit-style vibrator (see the ears?) with three motors. Three!
One large motor for the shaft and two small ones for the "ears," which operate independently. Soft, firm silicone,inductive/magnetic charging, and totally water-proof. It ain't discreet, in fact it kinda screams dildo, but hey, it's a dildo. It's for dildoing. Get over it.